Upon death, when I return to my death point I found no gravestone. I know for a fact that there are gravestones that *should* appear upon death on singleplayer worlds, but what has happened for the server?
Depends where you die. Sometimes they are at the bottom of the world in void and ocean areas. Sometimes in the nether they appear above the top bedrock later (not accessible). Other times they do vanish as the mod can’t place the, I’m not sure why.
I can reset your user to a backup that occurred before your loss.